Why I Stopped Chasing ‘Potential’ in Relationships – And You Should Too”

I used to be the girl who believed love could fix anyone. If he was kind sometimes, prayed once in a while, or said he had big dreams—I held on. But here’s the truth: potential isn’t a promise.

I learned (the hard way) that who they are now matters more than who they might become. You can’t build a future on “maybe.” You need “show me.”

Now? I look at consistency, character, and communication. Not just vibes. Not just church attendance. Not just dreams without effort.

Sis, stop falling for potential. Start choosing peace.
You deserve someone who’s ready—not someone you have to raise.

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